I’ve seen those deadly squares in the past too. It has been a long while since I did this, I will never try a Celestron update again unless things are totally failing. I still have that mount, but don’t use if very much anymore.
I wish I had taken good notes, or any notes that I could find now. I do have the general instructions though. And my recollection may be off, but here is what I recall.
Change to a really short top notch USB cable—this I know was when I was at my wits end and it finally worked.
Delete the CFM you had.
Disconnect the HC from the mount.
Connect the HC directly to your computer using the USB cable.
Launch the Celestron Firmware Manager (CFM)
Seek Devices in CFM, it will find the HC and show a "BOOT LOADER" message.
The Celestron Logo and 4 may help, but I don’t recall when to do this.
Start the Update and DO NOT disconnect the cable or power off anything until CFM reports success.
Verify by disconnecting and reconnecting the HC to the mount, then check the firmware version in the HC menu.
If the BOOT LOADER doesn’t show up, ignore it, and try pressing the update button anyway.
Some of the above worked, some maybe were things I tried but did not work. I can tell you I got it eventually, not sure how many times I tried, trial and mostly error, but I definitely tried the same and different things over and over to get it.
Good luck
Rick