Watch Patriot Astro's video, you can't go wrong.
https://youtu.be/lHrfaR7A0L0?si=hc85vBrD4Rng4EBMAfter watching his video, I did the following.
Manually find focus and mark the tube with a pencil or something that's not permanent.
Rack the focuser all the way in, attach the EAF and zero it out.
Move the EAF, within NINA, until your marks are back to where you started, fine tune with a Bahtinov mask, take note of the position in NINA.
Take a few subs and note the average HFR. Using NINA's focusing tab move the focuser in or out, one direction only, until the HFR is 4x's - 6x's where you started.
So, if your HFR is 2.86 at best focus with the mask, round that to 3, 3x4=12 so when your HFR is around 12.
Take the difference from your initial position and current position and divide that number by 4, that's your "Autofocus step size".
Set your "Autofocus initial offset steps" to 4.
Set your backlash IN/OUT to out, start with maybe 500. It's ok to have too large of a number there, but not too small. You can experiment with this setting after you get it working.
Of course, you can tweak those settings until you get a nice V curve.