Okay i measured everything today.
The Evolux Coarse hole was 18mm.

The Coarse knob itself was 16.92mm. So i need a coupler with almost that same size. 17mm would do also. But the Gemini (ZWO Clone EAF AlieExpress) couplers were all 18mm.

So i shaved with stone grinder almost 1mm away, until it fitted


On this coupler the innder bore holes were on 1 side 6mm and on the other side 5mm.
The 5mm fitted the Gemini EAF perfectly, but the other 6mm side didnt fit the Evolux Coarse shaft. Because that was also exactly 6mm. So the 6mm needed drilled a verry little bit.
After that everything fitted on my side. I tried to find a coupler with a diameter 17mm, but i cant find them.
I hope this work, and i dont have tilt or other weird stuff. It turns perfectly in Nina.
See my video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9MbItBB9Xt0