I shoot from my bortle 4 backyard with the full antlia 3nm / LRGB set and couldn't be happier with the setup. Ha and Sii are barely affected by the moon unless you're staring at it (within 15 degrees). Of course, you will have less signal, but there are still hardly ever gradients in Ha, and rarely gradients in Sii. Oiii will always be affected by the moon, even at 3nm. For that reason I generally only do Oiii when the moon is not present.
Here are a couple raw, unedited stacks from my Espirit 100s, IMX571s (dual scope), and Antlia 3nm filters. Most of this data was taken under 50% moon or better, and a couple nights were within 20 degrees of the moon. No visible gradients.
These are all 10 minute subs, 10 to 15 hours per stack. These are full resolution (converted to JPG)
Ha:

Sii:

Oiii:

The Oiii may not be the greatest example because I did have some mild reflection issues that I have since taken care of. Those are evidenced by the bottom two corners, one is caused by out of frame Propus, reflecting off the edge of the filter mask. Same story for the other corner. Oiii was also taken with no moon.
Hope this helps a little bit in your decision. Antlia 3nm are the way to go. Everyone I know who runs them has zero complaints, and I highly recommend them to others.