@JohnAdastra ,
I realize you’ve put some effort into troubleshooting your scope, but have you really gone back to square one with regard to optical alignment? By this I mean, have you 1) made sure the spider is centered, 2) aligned the focuser on the center of the spider with the secondary mirror removed (using the focuser baseplate adjustment screws on the back of the scope), 3) replaced the secondary, 4) centered the secondary mirror spot in the focuser, and proceeded systematically from there? And do you do fine collimation with the DSI method or SkyWave software on real stars?
All of this sounds harder than it really is. I probably spent a half day on bench collimation and a night or two on fine collimation. But this effort was well worthwhile, and I have found the collimation of my GSO 10-inch truss tube RC very easy and incredibly stable. I check collimation every few months and as needed but have not had to make an adjustment in a year. And as a backyard imager without an observatory, this is with me re-mounting the tube on a per-session basis.
Also, when you say the stars change over the course of the evening, it makes me think your imaging train might be sagging. What focuser do you have? The stock one is not very good, in my opinion. I installed a Prima Luce Labs 3-inch Esatto focuser, which is absolutely rock solid. Are your connection points threaded and secure? No compression fittings anywhere? Nothing loose?
Of course, the CDKs and iDKs being discussed are excellent scopes, but you already have an excellent scope. I would try everything possible to troubleshoot the one you have before spending big on something else.
Regards,
Glenn