Your question seems to be split into - “Would getting more narrowband filters to pair with my OSC camera help with 1) better nebula photo’s, and 2) smaller stars”, so I’ll frame my answer around that understanding. If I’ve misunderstood, apologies for the off-track response.
1) No. The L-Extreme isolates the two main emission lines that are most prevalent / strongest we see out there, and has a narrow enough bands to work extremely well as a light pollution filter. In your bortle 4 and 2 environments, theres very little benefit in using it, so this really only relevant for the bortle 8 environment. Key thing to keep in mind, you’re using an older sensor and an OSC, so quantum efficiency isnt as high as with a newer camera, and bayer pattern means you have at least 1/3 less available pixel area to collect photons of a specific band. Using a narrowband filter cuts down the collection rate even further. So a narrower bandpass filter would require orders of magnitude more exposure time for the same SNR. Other emission line bands like Sii and Hb will have even higher diminishing returns. If your goal is to do more narrowband imaging or play around with less prevalent emission lines, this would start to build a case to switch to mono.
2) Not really. You could blow money on a 3nm dual band filter, but cost will start to escalate significantly, and per above, you’d also have some unintended downsides. There’s also no point in getting a filter to make smaller stars if your telescope optics and mount/guiding setup are limiting factors, and likely are. Software is the much much much better way to control stars, and my goodness cheaper. I have no idea about the software you use, I took the plunge on Pixinsight many many moons ago and it does the job extremely well, especially paired with a couple of Bill Blanshon’s scripts. Tony rightly also suggests, if you want super tiny stars with limited artefacts, go full star removal. If you’ve already de-linearised, use a histogram transform or curves to pull down the brightness of the stars, which will also shrink them. If you can start at linear, separate first and stretch independently like Tony suggests. Play around with iterations of this, and re-add to your starless image.
Good luck!