I started out imaging from my home in San Diego (coastal southern California). I soon learned that I was actually able to use my equipment only a few times a month due to weather and sky quality. This often resulted in often only 6 to 12 hours of integration time on a target and a lot of down time for the equipment.
With a few equipment additions I had a portable refractor rig that allowed me to travel to the eastern part of the county where the sky quality is much better, and I would also join others at popular dark sites. The face-to-face socializing was really enjoyable. The only limitation being how long I could stay at these dark sites with my rig. The issue was that with work/family obligations I was still constrained to 15 or so hours of integration time before I had to breakdown the rig and head home.
Mid 2024 I realized my home based (not portable) rig was not getting much use, and I saw the increase in popularity of the remotely hosted sites. Because I really wanted to use my home-based rig in worthwhile conditions, so I decided to take it to HCRO in NM where it could get a lot more use than at my home. This turned out to be a great (but expensive) move. The huge increase in the use of this equipment in pristine sky conditions justified the cost (IMHO). The social aspect of being part of the HCRO community is wonderful, but its not the same as being at a dark site with others. However, I do enjoy going to HCRO a couple times a year (Greg is a great host).
I decided to keep my portable rig because it is a lot of fun to join others at dark sites, setting up equipment, trouble shooting, and imaging. My expectations are now more realistic with the acknowledgement that being out under the stars with other amateur astronomers is really half the fun. I leave it to my equipment at HCRO to fulfill my need to get really incredible images.