I would say focus position is relative to the scope, even with a refractor. My Tak FSQ106 has a very short focus travel. More likely I would be able to set the focus close. With the reducer at F3.64 , it will be more crucial. My AP130GTX and TMB130SS uses the Starlight 3.5 " focuser. It has 100mm of travel and varies a lot depending on the train. The F ratio will also be a factor.
I agree that with a well corrected refractor, rotation is not crucial. If it is, the you may have bigger problems.
I also use the same calibration frames over sereral sessions. I put a lot of effort in cleaning the filters from dust, so the dust donuts become less a factor. Inow have permanet set up which makes all this much easier. However, when it did nightly set ups, I still used the same calibration frames. I know some imagers that set up nightly, but do not disassemble the imaging train, and one that built a special case to house the whole scope and imaging train.
Also the neccessity of flat calibration can vary with the object and post processing. The image in the above post has a rather dark even background and more easily flattened with software. But if you are doing nebula and attempting to bring out the faint outer nebulosity, you will need to stretch the data a great deal. If the image has not been well flat calibrated, then you will be limited to how much the outer data can be stretched.
One of the pit falls of poor calibrated data is the imager will push the background black point too far, in order to cover up the noise and poor flat calibration. Unlike galaxies, nebula is surrounded by dust and faint nebulosity. Not empty black space.
I realize this a bit off topic, but speaks to when flats are required. A lesson I had to learn.
Lynn K.